Showing posts with label celebrations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label celebrations. Show all posts

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Here comes the bride...


This week my husband's brother, and his new wife came to visit. They live in a far off province. They married on one of those cruise ship weddings, very romantic, and very intimate. My sisters in law and I thought it would be nice to have a little special thingy happening at our dinner the night before they left to go home again. I baked a wedding cake. Haven't done one in a long time. My sisters in law and I are well insinc, when we do dinner for Christmas, each of us has our specialities. Chris does the turkey, Teresa is responsible for fruits and vegetables and salad, and of course fat me get the dessert. I really use them as guinea pigs you know. Anyway here is my adventure in cake decorating.


In the middle of running back and forth to the fridge to keep things cool, my cat decided I was not paying him enough attention. I swear he's trying to trip me,
the biggest challenge in these bakeoffs is refrigeration. It's been so hot, that even with the AC going, by the time you are baking and icing things, refrigerator space is at a premium.



Best Wishes to the Bride and Groom...


P.S. There is nothing that doesn't look better with a little baby's breath and roses, even chocolate.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

All about Dads...


As it is Father's Day I can only think that the joys of being a father must be much like that of being a mom. Perhaps a little different perspective but still joyful. I know for sure my husband, even though he doesn't make any outward sign of expectation, waited patiently for my son to call with his greetings. My young son, the one that still at home with us, got up early to pack things. I must say, I miss the decorated ties and fridge art at these occasions. But it's amazing how a grumpy old man's mood changes when his son, who thought forgot about him, calls. MAGIC. If kids only knew. It's most appropriate that I include this little ditty.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Dyngus Day, Easter Monday

Well we are all full of good food, much chocolate and cake and good spirits. So just when you think the Poles are finished celebrating, I come up with Dyngus Day. Yes, Dyngus Day. Dyngus Day is celebrated on Easter Monday, boys/men sprinkle girls/women or douse them with water. Now it's not just any boys sprinkling any girl, it's a favorite. So the girl that changes her clothes most frequently on that day wins the popularity contest. This was started in small villages and towns many years ago, my mother claimed that the more well to do sprinkled with perfumes, and of coarse the boy of choice would be rewarded with a beautifully decorated egg. TODAY, yes today my husband is off to Dyngus Day Celebrations, wait till the girl who douses him finds about the in-services he needs, gets and keeps failing. In the U.S. and Poland still, Dyngus Day is celebrated with dances and feasting. Much like St. Patrick's Day only no parade, that I know of. I don't do Dyngus day. I find that after our activities of Holy Week, I love the quiet of Monday. When my children were little and off school, we would enjoy all their treats and some quiet time together. Now that they are men they are off to school/work. I'll visit with my mom and have a nice day as well. If you watch the Buffalo News at 11p.m. tonight you'll get a report on the fun being had on Dyngus Day, and perhaps a glimpse of my husband dancing by/or standing at the bar. I believe the original reason was not only a courtship event but the drowning of winter. We've evolved I guess, now we don't sprinkle, we text. Have a good one.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Happy Easter


Happy Easter to all. In our house and even in my house an egg hunt was not a big deal. I usually chose a good piece of chocolate and something the boys wanted. I don't think my mother did chocolate. Now that this is her main source of nutrition perhaps it was back then and she was a closet chocoholic. HMmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Anyway, my eldest son doesn't like chocolate, (I think he was switched at birth ha ha) so he always wanted some paint brush or book or something so that tended to be the Easter treat. Sasha on the other hand LOVES chocolate, so he usually gets some throughout the Easter season with a grand finale on Easter Morning, some of that good stuff you buy at the One of a Kind. As children we went to 11 a.m. mass. In those days you had to fast at least one hour before communion. So you know how early our breakfast was. There were five kids, so my mother really hustled us to get dressed and to the table. It was an unusual breakfast, Barszcz, (beet soup) ham,with buraczki, eggs (hard boiled) kielbasa, bread and butter, and she always made a makowiec (poppy seed roll). At my house we will have white barszcz, with ham and buraczki, and the rest of it. Since my kids don't eat red or white barszcz, I make my husband eat the one that is traditionally made at Easter. We share the blessed egg. Now this afternoon my sisters and their families and us will get together and have a dinner. I don't remember that at my mother's house, I think we just worked on breakfast leftovers. We quite loved that. Maybe my memory is failing me but... Anyway have a Wonderful Easter.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Swieconka, Holy Saturday

The Blessing of the food in a basket is something we as children did in our home ALWAYS. My mother of coarse early Saturday morning would be rushing to paint some eggs. The basket would contain foods representing the meal we would enjoy on Easter morning. Bread, butter in the shape of a lamb, salt, eggs, hard boiled, some painted and decorated, kielbasa (polish sausage). Our basket was usually quite simple. There was of coarse that unwritten competition amongst the ladies, who had the nicest embroidered covering, who had the biggest Babka, etc. Since it was usually my dad and us that went to bless it, my mother didn't really get involved in the competition. And of coarse when paper napkins came to be available that was the thing, cover your basket with a paper napkin "very in". As Poles began to move out into suburbia the tradition of blessing the Easter baskets appealed to non-Polish people and in our church of manly Filipino and people from Goa the blessing has now become quite a popular new practice. The food are not your usual Polish eats but a mixture.
So you start with your favorite basket. I like the grapeviney ones.
Line it with a cloth napkin, or paper napkin if you want to be "in".

You'll need the following items to complete your presentation, butter, some people do a lamb shaped butter, I didn't this year, because I have my sugar one.


Hard boiled eggs, I've done quite a few here because we will be sharing these both at my house for our family breakfast and at our dinner when our extended family gets together for dinner. There is also the painted one, or as many as you would like to include in your basket.
I've added a few slices of bread, and a small container of salt. I decorated this year with the daffodils from my garden and an olive branch. The napkin gets folded in for transportation and opened for blessing. So for my small family when we sit down to breakfast Easter morning "Andy the head of the household" goes around the table to share the blessed egg, which is cut up into small portions. All blessed food must be consumed, no throwing it out into the trash. I don't do the wine and the chocolate, and neither did my mother, just because she figured we would eat the chocolate before we got to share it, and the wine well ... I'll leave that to your imagination.And Watch the cat, all of this smells so strongly that it's extremely attrictive to pets. We had a poodle at one point in my mother's house, that was fed mostly from table scraps, during holy week when we fasted from Wednesday on the animal had not had much meat so when the basket came out you could see her little nose go and look for it, much like my cat, who wouldn't eat any of it anyway but...

Now I'll have to tell you about some of the fun things of blessing your food. One year this lady came with her very large basket to be blessed, she was a large lady, the church floor had just been waxed and yes you guessed it she took a ride, on her new high heels. She and her basket were quite disheveled but blessed they were.

Sunday, April 5, 2009

The Donkey

You know how you remember things from your elementary years. Each Palm Sunday, I remember this poem. It was Mrs. Paradisi that read it to us, grade eight, St. Bernard School. It's going into that little "At a loss for words" book.

The Donkey

When fishes flew and forests walked
And figs grew upon thorn,
Some moment when the moon was blood
Then surely I was born.

With monstrous head and sickening cry
And ears like errant wings,
The devil's walking parody
On all four-footed things.

The tattered outlaw of the earth,
Of ancient crooked will;
Starve, scourge, deride me: I am dumb,
I keep my secret still.

Fools! For I also had my hour;
One far fierce hour and sweet:
There was a shout about my ears,
And palms before my feet.

Author Unknown.


I hope all those teachers that I know and don't know make as much of an impression on their young pupils as Mrs. Paradisi did on me. It has been easily a quarter century that I was in her class. That little saying " 2 Teach is 2 touch a life" couldn't be more true. If not for Mrs. Paradisi I would be a hairdresser today, not that that's a bad thing, but just not my thing. I really hate doing hair. Make it a good touch.

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Widgets

I haven't posted for a few days, since I'm just too tired to do so. Sasha wondered why I had not removed my Christmas Widget. Well I like to think that Christmas is more than just one day, so it will be there for a while. (or a least until I figure out how to remove it). There has been some serious reformatting of computers at my house so if you don't hear from me "that's the why". We are experiencing spring like weather today or at least now so I'm out to my garden. See ya!

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Our Grad



Each year at this time of year we have a wonderful event to look forward to. One of our children graduate. This year our lovely Nicole graduated from Secondary School. She has given us a lot of pleasant and fun memories as she grew, many laughs and some tears (good ones). As you may know Nicole's mom is a Creative Memories Consultant and over the last ten or so years we have created school days memories books or our children. Nicole had some wonderful adventures at school. We hope they continue to be great and we know she will continue to be a caring, contributing person as she goes out into the world. CONGRATULATIONS GRAD

photo of a photo I own.

Happy Birthday

Happy birthday to my wonderful son,  it's bee 33wonderful years. Hope this year proves to be the best yet.